Child and Discipline - role of parents

A child’s discipline is highly dependent on their parents behavior. In recent days discipline is always related with strictness and punishment.But the real fact is that strictness and punishment alone can never streamline a child to grow in a disciplined way.
Of course the child may be in the disciplined path but only till the external forces exists( i.e) only under the observation. Whenthe child is left free he/she may indulge for aindiscipline behavior.
So its always in the hands of the parents to choose the best way in order to teach discipline for their children. There are several scenario where the advice given by the parents may not reach the children, so have a look on it and avoid approaching your child to get best behavior from him/her.

1. Say no to advice in front of others

It will be in top most priority list among the children, where they will never want their parents to advise them in front of others. If you advice then it creates an enmity between you and your child.

2. Demonstrate

You should be like a protocol for your child. If you have elders then respect them in front of your child, so he/she may get the habit of respecting their elders.

3. Pamper him and advice:

You should have a great skill when you want to advice your child. Simply when you advice then he/she will take it in their left ear and leave it in their right ear. But when you find a small positive in them, you appreciate it and apparently give the small dosage of advice. It’s an art of giving sugar after taking bitter element to a child.

4. Role model:

You should be the role model for your children, avoid smoking and drinking etc., and avoid doing social immoral activities in front of your child. So that he/she may learn good moral value from their parents.Hence parents play an important role in implanting and instilling good moral value in their child’s mind.